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A celebration for the person you’ve always been

Congratulations. You've done something extraordinary. Whether it took years of quiet courage, one terrifying conversation, or a long journey to get here, you've arrived. And arriving deserves to be marked.

A coming out, transition or gender affirmation celebration is a chance to step into your true self in front of the people who love you. To say: this is me. And to hear them say it back.

I’m a queer-identifying celebrant and someone who has spent years creating spaces & policies where people feel genuinely seen.

This ceremony is for you, shaped entirely around what you need it to be.

(also, language is deeply personal - whatever words feel right for your story are the ones we’ll use)

This might be for you if...

  • You're coming out to your family, friends, or community and want to mark the moment with intention

  • You're affirming your gender, whether that's a name change, the start of a medical journey, or simply stepping into yourself publicly for the first time

  • You want to gather your people and give them the chance to witness and affirm who you are

  • You've been through so many hoops, now you want the ceremony - the moment that makes it real

  • You just want a beautiful, joyful celebration of becoming

    • An initial conversation to talk through what you'd like the ceremony to feel like - no forms, no pressure

    • A fully personalised ceremony script, written around your story and your journey

    • Reservation of your ceremony date and time

    • Guidance on ceremony structure and what to include

    • Phone and email support in the lead-up

    • Travel within 40km from home

    • PA system and microphone if required

    1. We have a relaxed chat - you tell me what you're envisioning, I ask good questions, and we figure out the shape of the day together

    2. I write a ceremony that centres you: your story, your name, your identity, your people

    3. You review a draft and we shape it until every word feels exactly right

    4. On the day, I hold the space with warmth and care so you can simply be present in the moment

  • Celebrations like this are priced with care. Let’s have a conversation and we’ll work something out that feels right.

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